How to Get a New Circle of Friends.


As you have probably learned already, it’s not enough to be optimistic and successful, you also need to be in a success-inspiring environment. The most important element of that environment is the people in your life, and especially friends.

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If you’re surrounded with negative, or non-ambitious people, you’ll always have to work twice as hard to keep your success and optimism level.

In this article, I want to share with you the strategy that you can use to create the fun and inspiring circle of friends that you want.

What To Expect From Making New Friends

As you start making new friends, you benefit in three realms: intellectual, emotional, and physical.

In the intellectual realm, great friends give you access to advice, connections, critical thinking, quality feedback, and challenging you to reach explore your potential to make more money and be more successful.

In the emotional realm, great friends give you more motivation; they believe in you and your dreams; they tolerate and understand you; they remind you to be light-hearted and have fun; they cheer you up during life’s darkest moments, and celebrate your highest successes with you.

In the physical realm, with great friends, you go on trips, travels, and adventures together, you enjoy your weekly dose of fun and relaxation, you get to play and be silly like as if you’re a kid again, and discover loads of new places, experiences, and maybe even new hobbies.

With interesting and fun friends, not only can you be yourself, but you also get the support to be your best self!

How Do You Build A Circle Of Friends: A Two-Part Formula

After years of learning and experimenting with various strategies for making friends and building my social life from scratch, I have come up with a simple, yet powerful formula that works. This can work for you if you want to meet new people, and enjoy the benefits of having an empowering circle of friends.

1. Explore The New

As I always say, “If you’re not making new friends, you’re making less.” As people move, get in new relationships, change careers, or habits, you start to have less and less people to meet. This is why you absolutely need to be making new friends.

To make it easy to meet new people, you can meet them through an interest group, or a club. To make it easier, join a club that is about something you love. To make it even easier, join the organizing team of that club or interest group, which will make it very easy for you to talk and get to know people.

2. Strengthen The Old

In the second part of the formula, you keep up with the people you meet, and introduce them to old friends that you still want to keep in your social circle. If you want to have an entirely new social circle, then introduce these new friends to each other, arrange plans, where you bring them together.

If people stick together because of you, they’ll always be somewhat grateful to you for that introduction. Don’t worry about them being friends and leaving you behind, only the losers do that, and as we said, you’re after great people here.

This is critical because if you bring people together, they’ll start making plans and bringing new people, as well. If you only know people separately, you’ll always have to do all the work of calling, and making plans.

If you adopt this two-part strategy, you’ll soon have more friends than you expected, and start being more selective when choosing friends.

How To Start Making Friends Today

If you’re eager to start building a great social life, filled with the friends you want, then I recommend that you start by doing two things:

First, go to your calendar and put a weekly marker on Tuesday or Wednesday evening. That marker will remind you to take an hour to email, text, or call anyone you want to meet in the coming days or weeks, or anyone new you met recently and want to see again.

Why does this work? Because you don’t have to think about it, you just do it once a week, and never worry about people forgetting about you, just because you forgot to stay in touch.

Second, go look for a club, an interest group, an expat community, or an organization that seems interesting and fun. Subscribe to one or two of those and attend their next events. If you see that the people there are the kind with whom you can enjoy time and learn new things, then you found a winner.

If you find a great expanding community that holds regular social events, then stick with it. That’s where you’ll be meeting new and interesting friends.

Don’t Fail At Making Friends…

When you’re staying in touch and arranging plans with good friends on a weekly basis, and including new ones, you’re really in a position where you literally can’t fail at friendship. You’re also preventing yourself from ever feeling lonely or misunderstood.

Source: Purpose Fairy

 

Is Cartography Dead?


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People sometimes ask me if cartography is dead. Students wonder if they should pick something else to stake a career in. Professionals wonder if their business will dry up soon. No one really knows what’s coming, or if “cartographer” is soon to be listed alongside “cooper” and “cartwright” in the tally of occupations of yesteryear.

In a field disrupted by massive technological changes, uneasiness about the future is commonplace. Twenty years ago a map was a piece of paper, now it’s a bunch of pixels on your smartphone. Graphic artists have given way to software engineers. No one quite knows what they’re doing anymore, or if they have the right skill set to cope with the next big development. Or if it will even be economically feasible for human labor to be much involved in mapmaking at all.

Cartography is not dead, but its survival requires thoughtful redefinition. Right now, many of us are not quite sure what cartography involves anymore, and plenty of people who are being paid to make maps aren’t sure if they should call themselves cartographers. There’s a lack of direction, I think, and we’re wondering what will happen to our field next.

But rather than waiting for the future to happen to us, I believe cartographers need to clearly assert their role in that future. Instead of being defined by outside forces, we need to tell people that “this is what cartographers do, and here is the valuable part we can play in the new order.” To my mind, the role we articulate must focus on aesthetics and design.

Cartography has long had a very technical component to it. Data management, projections, analysis, printing techniques, etc. These remain elements of the job, but their role has decreased as our tools have improved and become more automated.

Web cartography has opened a new set of technical challenges, but even then, it takes much less programming knowhow to put together an online map than it did just a couple of years ago. The entry barrier will continue to rapidly decrease.

As we go forward, more and more of the technical work will be taken away from us, done by automated algorithms that relieve us of the burdens of data processing, mathematics, and programming. That part of the job is not coming back.

What’s left, then, is to focus on the visualization side of things. This is where there is no present substitute for the human brain, nor is there likely to be for a while.

A skilled designer knows how to skillfully tell a spatial story, and how a typeface or a color choice affect a reader’s perceptions and moods. Increased automation and improved tools do not lessen the need for creativity and vision. Instead, they free us to spend more time focusing in these things, which no machine can do. This is the value we bring to the process. These skills will endure even as the methods of mapmaking continue to change.

We need the public to understand better the storytelling side of mapmaking, because that’s what’s left to us. Many people still think that my job entails figuring out driving directions, or knowing where the continents are, etc. They think of “cartographer” in mostly technical, rather than aesthetic, terms.

When my colleagues and I tell people that we are cartographers, responses often include things like, “hasn’t everything been mapped already?” or “what do you do now that there’s Google Maps?” These responses indicate our failure as a discipline to make a clear argument for our existence.

We know we have a purpose, but that purpose is not particularly linked with the idea of “mapmaking” in the minds of the public. We need to spread the perception of cartographers as artists and designers, who focus on spatial representations. From a marketing perspective, we need to explain better to people the value of a spatial story that’s not merely technically accurate, but also told well and attractively. That’s what I want people to think of when they think about cartographers.

This is a tough challenge. There are thousands of cartographers, vs. billions of non-cartographers. Based on sheer numbers, the general populace has most of the power in defining us, and it’s hard to push back.

The best thing we can do, though, is to continue to produce better and better maps. The more people see maps as attractive objects with thoughtful, high-quality construction, the more they will think about those things when I tell them I’m a cartographer.

What hurts the field is when we see hastily-made, poorly conceived, unattractive, default-heavy maps. The kind made mostly by someone throwing everything together without a lot of thought, letting their tools do the thinking for them. If someone thinks of those when I tell them my profession, then they might quite rightly ask me, “why isn’t a computer doing your job?”

The survival of our field depends on us continually demonstrating that we can do things that computers cannot. We must show that we care how the map looks.

Changes in technology mean we must rearticulate cartography as a field of artists and craftspeople, with aesthetic and design talents. If we cling to technical abilities and say that you need to hire a cartographer because they can use ArcMap to transform a shapefile into a conformal projection, our swift march to irrelevance is certain.

Only our ideas and our abilities as storytellers remain valuable.

Even with these efforts, I expect that cartography as a discipline will shrink. Most people simply don’t need their maps made with a lot of creativity and beauty. They come to us only for our technical skills, and once those are irrelevant, they won’t be coming back. Custom maps of the future will become more and more like the handmade pottery you see at an art fair: more expensive and higher quality, but also in competition with mass-produced, cheap automated stuff that’s good enough for most purposes.

Source: http://visual.ly