5 Valuable Life Lessons to Learn from Nelson Mandela.


 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

As an African woman, I’ve been giving a lot of thought to Nelson Mandela in the aftermath of his death in December. The media was abuzz about him and some people were wondering which individual African would fill his shoes. Which African leader would be the new Nelson Mandela.

Well, I’ve read a lot about Mandela and see him as a reluctant celebrity. When you read some of his quotes, you get this impression.  He did not think what he did was amazing and he just wanted to spend time with his family; something very normal husband and fathers do.

“I was not a messiah, but an ordinary man who had become a leader because of extraordinary circumstances.”

“I stand here before you not as a prophet, but as a humble servant of you, the people.”

“I really wanted to retire and rest and spend more time with my children, my grandchildren and of course with my wife.”

So I got this idea, that instead of one of us trying to fill his shoes, all of us should. I think that is what he would want to happen because a whole bunch of Nelson Mandela clones can get a lot of the needed change the world needs.

I took some of his quotes and crafted 5 valuable life lessons we could all learn from Nelson Mandela. Enjoy.

1. You are responsible for your life

“I am the master of my fate and the captain of my destiny.” ~ Nelson Mandela

Nelson Mandela knew that you are responsible for your life, and you have to take control of your steering wheel and take it where you want to go. You. No matter how many genuine excuses you may have. It boils down to you.

We must use time wisely and forever realize that the time is always ripe to do right. You can’t have whatever you want in life if you are not in charge and can’t account for the 24 hours you are given daily. There are a lot of resources to help you with time management.

2. Education is power

“Education is the most powerful weapon which you can use to change the world.” ~ Nelson Mandela

Education was very important to Nelson Mandela.

Finish school, go back to school, enroll in that community college or university. I know going to school is just not the thing to do, but it really helps. When I’m faced by hardships now, I draw on the strength I got while doing a Masters degree several years ago. The program was so tough and challenging and I know if I did that, I can pretty much do a lot of things.

Or help Malala Yousafzai educate girls by reading more about her and her organization The Malala Fund.

3. Look at the bright side of things

“I am fundamentally an optimist. Whether that comes from nature or nurture, I cannot say. Part of being an optimistic is keeping one’s head pointed toward the sun, one’s feet moving forward. There were many dark moments when my faith in humanity was sorely tested, but I would not and could not give myself up to despair. That way lays defeat and death.”

Looking at the glass as half full rather than half empty will help you navigate life.

4. Live on purpose

“What counts in life is not the mere fact that we have lived. It is what difference we have made to the lives of others that will determine the significance of the life we lead.”  ~ Nelson Mandela

This quote really affected me. It’s not about me getting a six pack, getting married and having a fantastic wedding with tigers and elephants, it’s not about me taking fantastic vacations with my husband…it’s not about me buying all Apple products and having the latest Iphone 5, 6,7 and so one. All these things are good but Nelson Mandela wanted people to actually touch and make a difference in someone’s life.-

5. One can overcome poverty

“Overcoming poverty is not a task of charity; it is an act of justice. Like Slavery and Apartheid, poverty is not natural. It is man-made and it can be overcome and eradicated by the actions of human beings. Sometimes it falls on a generation to be great. YOU can be that great generation. Let your greatness blossom.”  ~ Nelson Mandela

This great man thought poverty could be overcome. I realized that I had become desensitized to to other peoples lack because I grew up relatively comfortable in Kenya.

Kenya has a lot of rich people and more poor people and even though I live in a richer country now, there is still a lot lack even here.

Are we all trying to get more for ourselves and not realizing that there could be some truth in what he said. Is there a way each of us could do something small to decrease the gap between the rich and the poor? What are your thoughts on this?

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Who next as the world’s elder statesman?


Mandela death: Who next as the world’s elder statesman?

Gandhi, Nelson Mandela and Aung San Suu Kyi

Nelson Mandela was often described as the “world’s elder statesman”, a father figure tackling global problems. His moral authority made him, in some people’s eyes, a successor to Gandhi. Who might play a similar role now?

Lockerbie, Burundi, DR Congo, Lesotho, Indonesia, Israel-Palestine, Kashmir, Stephen Lawrence murder, HIV awareness and World Cup football.

The list of subjects addressed in some way by Nelson Mandela is long and varied.

In some disputes, like Burundi’s long-running conflict, he was a mediator. On other intractable issues, like the stigma of HIV, he was the campaigner and bereaved father who tried to address prejudice.

Not all his contributions were successful or universally welcomed. He opposed intervention in Kosovo in 1999 and often strongly criticised US foreign policy, while his warm relations with Colonel Gaddafi and President Suharto raised eyebrows. Many thought he spoke out too late about the HIV crisis.

But even his critics would concede that he became a figure with unequalled status on the global stage.

“It seems to me that uniquely he negotiated his transformation from prisoner of conscience and iconic human rights leader to practical political leader who became in every single way the father of modern South Africa and then transformed again into elder statesman,” says Simon Marks, global affairs correspondent at Feature Story News based in Washington.

He had unquestioned legitimacy, someone that a very broad array of people looked up to, including pop singers and supermodels, says Marks.

Mandela on…

Mandela and Colonel Gaddafi
  • Lockerbie: Mediated between Libya and UK on transfer of suspects
  • Middle East: Criticised Israel for ‘narrow interests’
  • Lesotho: Ordered troops into country
  • DR Congo: Arranged key summit that led to peace accord
  • Kashmir: Urged India-Pakistan talks
  • Burundi: Closely involved in peace process
  • Indonesia: Visited East Timor politician in prison in Jakarta
  • Stephen Lawrence: Demanded urgency from police, two weeks after killing

Mandela had the capacity to operate as an honest broker in situations where others might not have been able to, says Christopher Alden of the London School of Economics, who points to Indonesia as an example. In 1997, Mandela’s two-hour visit to the imprisoned East Timorese politician Gusmao in Jakarta, against Suharto’s wishes, paved the way for a referendum and Gusmao’s release two years later.

“He accrued a moral authority that transcended the ordinary politics that guide the worst conduct of political actors.”

The unique feature of Mandela is that he was someone whose moral stature was truly worldwide, says Alden – a reflection of the globalised nature of the anti-apartheid struggle by the 1980s.

There have been other elder statesmen and women in recent years, he says, but they are generally figures whose activities are focused on internal politics or they are asked to act on behalf of a state.

“Jimmy Carter has been ‘deployed’ to North Korea to hold discussions on sensitive issues and has played an important role in democratisation efforts in Africa through the monitoring/training of elections but these are more functional – he lacks the emotive power that Mandela generates.

“Blair’s involvement in the Middle East was an attempt, I suppose, at this – and to burnish his post-Iraq reputation – but notably a failure.”

The Elders
Mandela’s organisation, The Elders, drew together some of the world’s leading statesmen and women

Possibly Mandela’s most noteworthy intervention came early in 2005, following the death of his son, Makgatho. With the Aids epidemic still a taboo subject in parts of Africa, Mandela urged South Africans to be more open about the illness.

Biographer David James Smith believes Mandela’s personality was a key factor in his rise to international father figure – a quality few can match.

“There was a purity about Mandela, a simplicity about him like a farm boy looking after sheep, although he was capable of achieving things in immensely complex situations.

“He talked to commoners and kings in the same way. Everyone loves that he remembered names and took time to talk to everyone. He had all those great human qualities that people admire.”

The EldersFormed by Mandela in 2007, it’s an independent group of leaders working for peace

  • Martti Ahtisaari
  • Kofi Annan (chairman)
  • Ela Bhatt
  • Lakhdar Brahimi
  • Gro Harlem Brundtland
  • Fernando H Cardoso
  • Jimmy Carter
  • Hina Jilani
  • Graca Machel
  • Mary Robinson
  • Ernesto Zedillo
  • Desmond Tutu (honorary)

You could go anywhere in the world and show his face and people would know his name, says Smith, and there’s not anyone alive now who you could say that for.

“I can’t think of anyone else who will set the same example. Aung San Suu Kyi embodies some of the values that he had but you can’t say that she would be recognised in the same way.”

The Burmese prisoner turned politician is a really interesting character, says Marks. “Could she become that person? Maybe, except we don’t yet know how the political story will turn out. She has this amazing moral authority because of her experience as a prisoner of conscience but now playing an active political role and there are a lot of things putting her in a tough position.

“And when you take a leadership role you inevitably rub people up the wrong way. Therefore it’s not axiomatic that she fills those shoes, once the brutal world of politics has finished with her.”

Gandhi, Mandela and Suu Kyi were all political prisoners and this personal sacrifice is an important part of the role, says Marks, but there are other prisoners of conscience, in places like China and North Korea, who are not household names.

“They might at some point emerge as the agent of change in these countries. It requires a combination of personal sacrifice and – cynical though it is to say so – personal sacrifice at the right moment, because when the right moment is there politically, and you can capitalise on it as a result of personal sacrifice, you have more of a chance to effect change.”

But it may be that these extraordinary figures only emerge from time to time, says Marks. In the age of social media, it is perhaps more difficult to establish a long-term reputation because judgments are cast so quickly.

On his 89th birthday, Mandela formed The Elders, a group of leading world figures, to offer their expertise and guidance to – according to their website – “tackle some of the world’s toughest problems”.

“It remains to be seen whether an organisation of senior statesmen and women will be able to do what an individual like this has,” says Alden. “It is a one-in-a-generation person. It may work but it’s a novel experiment.

“Humankind needs this kind of person. Without them, the possibility of descending into brutish conflict we are capable of is accentuated. Hopefully there’s cometh the hour, cometh the man or woman. But I scan the horizon and I don’t see anyone of his ilk.”

Nelson Mandela: Aids campaigner


Nelson Mandela in October 2003
Like many others, Nelson Mandela did not at first realise the dangers of HIV

Though at first muted in his approach to the issues surrounding HIV/Aids, Nelson Mandela eventually became a dedicated and extremely effective advocate for a more vigorous approach to the disease.

When Mr Mandela was released from prison in February 1990, HIV/Aids had yet to make its full impact on South Africa.

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We are facing a silent and invisible enemy that is threatening the very fabric of our society”

Nelson Mandela

Following his election as president four years later, Mr Mandela faced huge challenges and – like so many other world leaders at the time – failed to fully understand the depth of the problem and did little to help those with Aids.

At the time, the African National Congress (ANC) was gripped by an ongoing debate about both the causes of, and treatment for, Aids.

Some figures, like Thabo Mbeki, Mr Mandela’s successor as president, openly questioned whether Aids was caused by HIV.

After Mr Mandela left office in 1999, he campaigned for more research into HIV/Aids, for education about safe sex and for better treatment for those affected. However, most South Africans still did not mention the disease in public.

Controversy within ANC

According to UN figures, the rate of HIV infection among adult South Africans rose from less than 1% in 1990 to about 17.9% by 2012.

Aids activists demonstrate outside the US consulate in Johannesburg - 17 June 2010South Africa has one of the highest HIV rates in the world

South Africa is currently home to more people with the virus than any other country – 6.1 million of its citizens were infected with HIV in 2012, including 410,000 children (aged 0-14), out of a population of just over 51 million.

The causes of an epidemic on this scale have been many – primarily poverty, but also economic migration, the poor status of women, and unsafe sexual practices, have all contributed to the rapid spread of the disease.

Apart from the human misery caused by Aids, its economic impact has been huge, with South African economic growth rates badly affected.

Having put the issue of Aids on the back burner when in office, Mr Mandela began to make strong pronouncements on the subject after he stepped down in 1999.

HIV/Aids in South Africa

  • People living with HIV: 6.1 million
  • Rate of infection in adults aged 15-49: 17.9%
  • Children aged 0-14 living with HIV: 410,000
  • Deaths due to Aids in 2012: 240,000
  • Orphans due to Aids aged 0-17: 2.5 million

Source: UNAids 2012

On World Aids Day in 2000, he sent out a hard-hitting message, saying: “Our country is facing a disaster of immeasurable proportions from HIV/Aids.

“We are facing a silent and invisible enemy that is threatening the very fabric of our society.

“Be faithful to one partner and use a condom… Give a child love, laughter and peace, not Aids.”

Mr Mandela said his country should promote abstinence, the use of condoms, early treatment, counselling and drugs to reduce mother-to-child transmission.

Urgency

At the time, there was a marked reluctance on the part of the South African government to fund anti-retroviral drugs for those with HIV.

Nelson Mandela with Makgatho (R) in 2003
Mr Mandela’s son, Makgatho (R) died from Aids-related illness in 2005

The then President Mbeki outraged many people when he told a US journalist that “personally, I don’t know anybody who has died of Aids” and that he did not know if he had ever met anyone infected with HIV.

One of his ministers suggested that people with HIV eat garlic and beetroot to combat the infection.

In November 2003, Mr Mandela – and his Nelson Mandela Foundation – stepped up the campaign, launching an HIV/Aids fundraising campaign called 46664, after his prison number on Robben Island.


Nelson Mandela

1918 Born in the Eastern Cape

1943 Joined African National Congress

1956 Charged with high treason, but charges dropped after a four-year trial

1962 Arrested, convicted of incitement and leaving country without a passport, sentenced to five years in prison

1964 Charged with sabotage, sentenced to life

1990 Freed from prison

1993 Wins Nobel Peace Prize

1994 Elected first black president

1999 Steps down as leader

2001 Diagnosed with prostate cancer

2004 Retires from public life

2010 Last major public appearance at football World Cup in Johannesburg

He compared the urgency and drama of his country’s struggle against HIV/Aids to the fight against apartheid.

Pop stars like Beyonce, Youssou N’Dour and Dave Stewart supported the campaign, and a star-studded concert, held in Cape Town in 2003, was seen by a worldwide television audience of two billion.

The money raised by Mr Mandela’s initiatives has been used to fund research projects and provide practical support for South Africans with HIV/Aids.

The campaign received a further boost in 2005, when Mr Mandela shocked the nation by announcing that his son, Makgatho, had died of Aids.

He urged people to talk about HIV/Aids “to make it appear like a normal illness”.

It was a significant move, which had a huge impact, said Michel Sidibe, head of the UN’s Aids agency Unaids.

“The country has become a leader in the Aids response because of Mr Mandela, and is moving towards an Aids-free generation thanks to his campaigning,” he said.

Mr Mandela also became a central figure in the African and global Aids movement, Mr Sidibe said.

“He was instrumental in laying the foundations of the modern Aids response and his influence helped save millions of lives and transformed health in Africa,” he said.

“He was a statesman who had Aids at the top of his agenda and he used his stature and presence on the global stage to persuade world leaders to act decisively on Aids. His legacy will be felt by generations.”

How do S Africans rate Mandela film?


South Africans are flocking to the cinemas to watch a film about their former President, Nelson Mandela. The movie Mandela: Long Walk To Freedom, starring British actor Idris Elba, is based on the former political prisoner’s autobiography of the same title and seems to be hitting the right notes.

I went to watch the epic 146-minute film in one of Johannesburg’s busiest economic hubs, Rosebank, and I found very few critics of the film among the general public.

Almost everyone I spoke to expressed their pleasant surprise at how well the film came across. A big thumbs-up for the lead actor, given that he is not South African, let alone not being Xhosa, Mr Mandela’s tribe. Some sang Elba’s praises because they felt that he got the accent right – not exactly like Mr Mandela, but close enough.

Part of the legacy of the apartheid system is that two decades since the introduction of democracy, the minds of South Africans are still very much defined along racial lines. So inevitably I must tell you what the white people thought and what the black majority said.

Mandela’s key dates

  • 1918: Born in the Eastern Cape
  • 1944: Joins African National Congress
  • 1962: Arrested, convicted of sabotage, sentenced to five years in prison
  • 1964: Charged again, sentenced to life
  • 1990: Freed from prison
  • 1993: Wins Nobel Peace Prize
  • 1994: Elected president
  • 1999: Steps down as leader
  • 2004: Retires from public life
  • 2010: Appears at football World Cup

In 1994, no-one thought we would still be talking about the colour of our skins in 2013 – especially considering the fact that we are just reviewing a film. However, that’s the reality of today’s South Africa.

Take Karabo Nkabinde, a teenage girl who can be best described as a born-free – the label attached to those who were born after the country was liberated from racial oppression and Nelson Mandela was elected president in the country’s first multi-racial election.

Clad in a fashionable small black hat and thick-framed spectacles, she told me that she had loved the film because it reminded her of the sacrifices Mr Mandela had endured.

“He’s actually been through a lot for us South Africans… for the youth and it is our job to make him proud,” she said.

Her friend Kgomotso Maloka, wearing a glamorous maroon lip gloss, said that she was pleased that, as a young black person, she could watch a film about Mr Mandela in a climate of peace where both black and white lived together in harmony.

“My favourite part was the ending, when he got freed and so did everybody else. Freed from fear and from the past! The movie is very touching and it could get you crying!” she said.

I then met a young white couple just as they walked out from Cinema One at Rosebank’s Ster Kinekor movie house holding hands. The man told me that he thought it was a very moving film which reminded him both of the liberation struggle and that there was still a long way to go to redress the imbalance of the past. They were shy to reveal their names.

After watching the film myself, I thought it was hard to squeeze such a rich life – including a 27-year prison sentence – into two hours without leaving out some key historical moments. And given that challenge, the film, in my view, captured the spirit of the man and his people in their desire to free themselves from the shackles of a brutal racist system.

While clearly the film was about Mandela the man, it also left me with a sense of the struggle of an entire people. When I asked a middle-aged white lady what she thought about the portrayal of the cigarette-smoking white men who ran the country under apartheid, she told me: “They were adequately portrayed, just as they were.”

Box-office records

I personally thought the death of Chris Hani ought to have been marked, even if it meant doing it with one single frame. I mention Chris Hani because his assassination on that fateful Saturday morning on 10 April 1993 delivered what is today celebrated as the nation’s biggest public holiday – Freedom Day on 27 April.

At the time of his death, Hani was the second most popular leader in the African National Congress after Nelson Mandela. He was shot by a Polish immigrant, Janusz Walus, in a killing ordered by right-wing politician Clive Derby-Lewis.

Nelson Mandela in a file photo from 2010
A film about an icon, but is it an iconic film?

They are both serving life sentences for killing Hani, with the sole purpose of starting a racial conflagration – something Mr Mandela prevented, and which was the primary reason he won the Nobel Peace Prize.

There were reports that, in some cinemas near Soweto, people took a day off work to watch the film. One cinema manager was quoted as saying that attendance was “unusually high”.

The film has broken box-office records for a non-holiday movie in South Africa, opening at number one.

However, even though it is about a much-loved figure like Mr Mandela, there has been some sharp criticism of Anant Singh’s production.

Writing in The Times, a national daily newspaper, Tymon Smith said: “If you want to really get to grips with the man though, you can do better by reading the books. One day someone will make a film that says something new and interesting about Mandela, but this is not that film and it seems a wasted opportunity rather than the fulfilment of a dream.

“It is also unfortunate that, because of all the power, money and influence behind it, all future films will have to struggle in its undeservedly long shadow.”

So, clearly not everybody is singing from the same hymn sheet. However, even Smith agrees in part that the actors are a class act: “The film certainly looks as good as any other epic and you can see the money on the screen.”

I should mention here the local cast of stars is also something that could not go unnoticed. Take the Walter Sisulu character, the man who recruited Nelson Mandela into the ANC, played by the talented Tony Kgoroge.

He was just brilliant alongside Elba and another British actor, Naomie Harris, who plays Winnie Mandela. And there are many other local talents like him in this biopic.

Considering that Mr Mandela is recuperating from a long illness at home just a few blocks away from the cinema, I was struck by the reality of it all. We have become accustomed to watching big Hollywood blockbusters on our local screens and listening to stories about others, so how refreshing it is to see characters of the very people I had drinks with just a week ago.

This story is not just about Mr Mandela but is a story of the people through the life of one man.

That’s what I take away from it. And with the current levels of poverty, inequality and unemployment which are in essence the legacy of apartheid, the story of the people continues where the film ends.

11 Lessons from Nelson Mandela.


Looking back on his 93 years, there are 11 lessons (from many) that I would like to share from his legacy which would help us make a small but positive mark in our society.

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Here they are:

1. Determination in fighting for the right thing. Nelson Mandela’s fought against apartheid which was a struggle of more than 50 years from 1943 when he joined ANC to 1994 when South Africa became independent and he became president. Of these years, 27 were in prison.

2. Never sell out on your beliefs. Nelson Mandela while still serving in prison had repeated offers from the apartheid regime to accept release for independence in small portion of South Africa called the Transkei, from where he hailed from. He simply turned them all down.

3. Be ready to change your tactics. In 1960 Nelson Mandela together with other leaders set up the military wing of ANC. After being released from prison in 1990, Mandela would eventually renounce all armed tactics and once again resort to peaceful negotiations.

4. Know the facts. Mandela was an astute lawyer and during his incarceration, his jailers in the 1980s, repeatedly attempted to get him to renounce militarism; however he remained adamant in his belief that prisoners cannot enter into contracts – only free men can negotiate.

5. Admit our mistakes. In interviews later in life, Mandela admitted that the ANC had committed some human rights abuses and even criticized anyone who attempted to deny it.

6. Reconcile with your enemies. Nelson Mandela worked on the setting up the Truth & Reconciliation Commission.

7. Sharing with others. Mandela has shared his life in books and through post retirement charity organizations that work on ills affecting the world today.

8. Lead from the front. When the Springboks rugby team won the 1995 rugby world cup, Nelson Mandela presented the winner’s trophy to the Captain Francois Pienaar while wearing a replica of Pienaar’s no. 6 Springboks t-shirt. This was a symbol that served to further heal the very tangible racial tension, in South Africa.

9. Letting go. Nelson Mandela became President in 1994 and in 1999 chose not to run for a second term, yet he could have won by a landslide. He instead handed over to Thabo Mbeki.

10. Smile. Mandela is also known for his big smile when he is meeting with people all over the world.

11. Serve humbly. Graca Machel once said, “I found this simple man,” as she described him in 1998 just before they were married. Indeed his actions of “letting go” of a presidency, of forgiving his captors, serving tea to his guests, and many more are testament to the humility and person of Nelson Mandela.

If applied, these lessons would make the world a better place and for that may God bless Mandela and give him many more years to inspire us.

Source: http://wakeup-world.com

Clinical prediction model to aid emergency doctors managing febrile children at risk of serious bacterial infections: diagnostic study.


Abstract

Objective To derive, cross validate, and externally validate a clinical prediction model that assesses the risks of different serious bacterial infections in children with fever at the emergency department.

Design Prospective observational diagnostic study.

Setting Three paediatric emergency care units: two in the Netherlands and one in the United Kingdom.

Participants Children with fever, aged 1 month to 15 years, at three paediatric emergency care units: Rotterdam (n=1750) and the Hague (n=967), the Netherlands, and Coventry (n=487), United Kingdom. A prediction model was constructed using multivariable polytomous logistic regression analysis and included the predefined predictor variables age, duration of fever, tachycardia, temperature, tachypnoea, ill appearance, chest wall retractions, prolonged capillary refill time (>3 seconds), oxygen saturation <94%, and C reactive protein.

Main outcome measures Pneumonia, other serious bacterial infections (SBIs, including septicaemia/meningitis, urinary tract infections, and others), and no SBIs.

Results Oxygen saturation <94% and presence of tachypnoea were important predictors of pneumonia. A raised C reactive protein level predicted the presence of both pneumonia and other SBIs, whereas chest wall retractions and oxygen saturation <94% were useful to rule out the presence of other SBIs. Discriminative ability (C statistic) to predict pneumonia was 0.81 (95% confidence interval 0.73 to 0.88); for other SBIs this was even better: 0.86 (0.79 to 0.92). Risk thresholds of 10% or more were useful to identify children with serious bacterial infections; risk thresholds less than 2.5% were useful to rule out the presence of serious bacterial infections. External validation showed good discrimination for the prediction of pneumonia (0.81, 0.69 to 0.93); discriminative ability for the prediction of other SBIs was lower (0.69, 0.53 to 0.86).

Conclusion A validated prediction model, including clinical signs, symptoms, and C reactive protein level, was useful for estimating the likelihood of pneumonia and other SBIs in children with fever, such as septicaemia/meningitis and urinary tract infections.

 

Source: BMJ